White Lesson 05/30
Submissive Course Rewards :
What you will need to complete today's lesson :
Packet of Stars
1X Separator for file.
1X Ice cream stick painted white.
Today is day 5 and we are going to use it as the start of a reward system being put in
place by the Dominant.
You as a new or as a re-learning submissive want to start training with your Dominant,
when a submissive has not been good He punishes her, but what about if you are well
behaved, you also want to be rewarded when you have been good.
A submissive wants to be reminded throughout the day of her Dominant's control; this
keeps a submissive in the correct mindset.
Just like when rules are in place it must be constant, then so should the rewards because
rewards are important to. Not only punish but to reward your submissive for compliance
and infractions. Your submissive needs to feel that you care and forgetting to dish out
what's earned is a sure sign to a submissive that you don't care. A Dominant can encourage
compliance and discourage infractions through a positive reward system.
Also try to reward more than punish, even if the submissive has created more infractions.
As long as they are putting good effort, give a few "get out of jail" free passes from time to
time. We are all human !
During this course every 5th day your Dominant will let you know if you have earned a star
for the 5 days if not your Dominant will let you know why not and what went wrong, when
He gives you your evaluation, this will help you in the future and it will make you as a
submissive try even harder to mould yourself into that good girl that all submissive's want
to be.
So every 5th day your Dominant will evaluate your progress thoroughly and will let you know
where your faults or good submission has been, so the Dominant needs to keep track of what's
been happening and how you as a submissive have been behaving. If you get 3 starts by day
15 or all 6 stars by day 30 your Dominant can give you as the submissive an extra reward.
Effort has been given to provide a combination of reward ideas suited for both Dominant
and submissive.
Here is a list of reward ideas :
A favourite submissive reward that most submissive's receive is "good girl", because that
feeling of being a Dominant's pride is the best reward a submissive could get.
Playing out one of the submissive's scene ideas.
Romantic dinner.
Trip to town.
Intellectual events such as lectures, book talks etc.
New sex toy.
A new book.
Outdoor adventures such as hiking.
A slab of chocolate.
A good reward can be to give your submissive a day off once in a while.
Give the submissive some free time.
Being intimate with your submissive.
A sensual massage.
Rewarding might also be done bringing out the toys.
Doing some bdsm play....Tying her up, spanking her, acting playful and more Dominant
than usual.
Trying new games just let things be spicier, even if it doesn't get sexual.
A good reward would be to let your submissive have an orgasm.
In the end, for your Dominant to be able to reward you efficiently, it's necessary for Him to
get to know you, all your passions and what you like very well, because each submissive is
different.
Eventually, by pushing the right buttons and by rewarding you accordingly, it will be beneficial
to you and your Dominant.
Today's to do list :
1) Make a reward section in your file and show your Dominant.
2) Make a reward sheet of things your Dominant can give to you as rewards and show Him,
when you make your reward list try thinking of at least 10 rewards that you as the
submissive would like, because after all you are the one that will be receiving the reward.
3) Write rewards on your Ice cream stick and keep it.
4) Make a nice arty star page with space for 6 stars to be placed one for every 5th day. So on
every 5th day of the course your Dominant will let you know if you have earned your star
or not.
Grand Master Clinton
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Good Evening Master Jamy
Here is my work for today :
1) Make a reward section in your file and show your Dominant.
2) Make a reward sheet of things your dominant can give to you as rewards and show Him,
when you make your reward list try thinking of at least 10 rewards that you as the
submissive would like, because after all you are the one that will be receiving the reward.
3) Write rewards on your Ice cream stick and keep it.
4) Make a nice arty star page with space for 6 starts to be placed one every 5th day. So on
every 5th day of the course your Dominant will let you know if you have earned your star
or not.
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I hope you enjoyed this lesson learning all about Rewards and how they can benefit both
the Dominant and the submissive. Leave a comment if you wish, love to hear from you đź’‹.
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