White Lesson 7/30
Honesty in BDSM.
What you will need to complete today ?
1X Ice cream stick painted white.
Today we are going to learn about Honesty in the BDSM Community.
A Dominant/submissive relationship without honesty is not worth having, because lets
face it, if you are not being honest with one another how is the relationship going to work.
I feel that honesty in a Dominant/submissive relationship is by far one of the most
important aspects of the relationship. I feel that at all times, both the Dominant and the
submissive must be honest. A falsehood can be extremely detrimental to the level of trust.
I expect full honesty and I am sure so would you expect that, so if the Dominant and the
submissive are being honest then the rest will be so much better.
Having discovered that someone was not honest to you can turn your whole relationship
around and it can also take away the trust you felt and the confidence you initially had in
the relationship. Finding out your Dominant/submissive is not being honest with you can
even end a relationship.
If it was not for honesty, trust would be a distant thing, honesty and trust are traits that
we respect. Unfortunately, in today's society and especially in personal relationships, the
concepts of honesty and trust re nearly extinct. However, there are those who still hold on
to these traditional values. The ideals of honesty and trust still exist, they will never
disappear. It is up to the BDSM community to lead the way back to the growth of these
noble ideals.
A true BDSM relationship that is based on the nurturing of honesty and trust in both
partners can set an example to the whole community.
Having a relationship in life is difficult at the best of times. Adding in the complexity of
BDSM is enough to throw anyone for a loop. The bottom line is that relationships are only
as easy or difficult as you make them.
So by staying honest and letting you Dominant know you will always be honest with Him
as He is with you will make a world of difference to your relationship.
It is especially important to understand that the submissive needs to be open and
forthright with her Dominant. Failing to convey emotions, feelings, frustrations, hurts and
concerns can result in a Dominant misunderstanding the true nature of his submissive's
needs.
A Dominant need not tell his submissive all that he knows. He may reserve information at
his discretion; however, any and all information presented to his submissive must always
be the truth. Lies should not be tolerated in any form.
The release of power you gave to your Dominant when you became His submissive should
make it easy to be honest with Him as it was your decision and you gave it to Him. So by
withholding the truth from Him, you not only create barriers in your relationship but you
insult Him in a way a submissive rarely can insult their Dominant. You insult Him by not
trusting Him enough to be open and honest with Him.
Honesty is the basis for trust in any relationship, especially a D/s relationship. The
relationship will suffer greatly as soon as the first lie is told, because when lies of any sort
are happening in any relationship and particularly once they are discovered they undermine
the whole foundation.
Quote :
If the submission is not based on honesty the Dominant cannot predict its outcome.
If He can't predict the outcome, He's not on Top.
If He's not on Top, He's not Domming.
So, If Dominant/submission is not honesty it's not happening !!!
1) What are your expectations from a Dominant/submissive regarding honesty ?
2) Do you think that lying is every OK ?
3) Will you as the submissive promise to always be honest with your Dominant ?
4) Will you as the Dominant promise to always be honest with your submissive ?
Today's to do list :
1) Please answer all the above questions in your discussion section of your submissive file,
and send them to your Dominant/submissive after reading everything.
2) On another sheet of paper write the above submissive quote and put it in the discussion
section of your submissive file, and show your Dominant.
3) Write about how you feel about honesty and place it in your discussion section of your
submissive file, and send a photo of it to your Dominant.
4) Write honesty on your Ice cream stick and keep it.
Grand Master Clinton
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Good evening Master Jamy
Here is my work for today :
1) Please answer all the above questions in you discussion section of your submissive file,
and send them to your Dominant/submissive after reading everything.
2) On another sheet of paper write the above submissive quote and put it in the discussion
section of your submissive file, and show your Dominant.
3) Write about how you feel about honesty and place it in you discussion section of your
submissive file, and send a photo of it to your Dominant.
4) Write honesty on your Ice cream stick and keep it.
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I hope your learned a lot about Honesty in a D/s relationship. It is not only for in the
lifestyle of BDSM, but also very important in any relationship. Without Honesty there is
nothing true in the relationship and if someone even a Dominant or submissive lies to
you the relationship will fall apart. Honesty is Always the Best Policy !!!
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