White Lesson 10/30
LEARNING ABOUT RULES
What you will need to complete today ?
1X section in file for Rules
1X section in file for Buttons
1X white button
In a Dominant/submissive relationship there are Rules which are imposed by the
Dominant on the submissive as well as the hard limits which are Rules for the
Dominant to follow.
Some of the Rules imposed are there just for the emotional well being of both the
Dominant and submissive. Those are there to protect the submissive from dealing
with emotional past or bad memories before they are ready and for the Dominant
it means something as simple as knowing that their submissive is safe at all times
whether they are there with them or not.
Some Rules can be for that of physical well-being, a couple examples of this would
be sleeping times, how much sleep a submissive gets and eating patterns whether
that is to lose/gain weight or just to become all around healthier. All these Rules,
whether the submissive believes it or not, have been put in place by the Dominant
due to the fact that they care enough to try and protect the submissive not just
make there life harder.
When you submit to someone the Rules that they give you because they believe they
are needed and we must trust that they are doing this for our own good not just to get
there high. The Rules that are imposed need to be followed because they are imposed
for more then just to show that we are being submissive but it shows how much we
care in return for our Dominant's that they took the time to make sure these Rules are
what we need so we need to take the time to follow them the best we can and then
communicate effectively to them when we are unable to do so and why not just brush
them off.
We follow the Rules laid down by our Dominant not criticizing them or commenting we
accept them that they have been put there for our protection, so why should we question
the Rules that are laid down by our Dominant and they are there for exactly the same
reason.
When you are disciplined it enforces thos boundaries and remind you that you are
happiest within the boundaries that your Dominant has set for you. While you may have
a rebel moment sometimes as a submissive you really are happier when the lines are
drawn and you stay within them. Sometimes these rebel moments are a cry for attention
or you are not getting your needs met and you haven't yet found a better way to tell your
Dominant.
A Dominant's Rules for a new submissive should start with a small set and eventually
work up to the list that He wants over time. That's why on the course we are helping your
Dominant to start small and we have created an easy set of Rules on Day 19 to start you
off with because you cannot change everything right away.
Your Dominant's goal is for you to succeed over time, not fail immediately.
Rules are things that are given to a submissive by the Dominant for very important reasons.
To follow the Rules should bring you pride and happiness that you feel for you Dominant, and
remind you that He cares for you. Rules are put in place to keep you in line, and to keep your
mind in the submissive mindset.
These Rules are established not only for Him to govern aspects of your life and behaviour
but also for you to express yourself to Him by following them. It should bring you pride
when you follow the Rules He has set out.
You can use these Rules as an anchor for your life. You should look at them daily, and
plan out your day around accomplishing them.
So once we have accepted, especially as a 24/7 submissive, that we are under someone
else's control and Rules we need to follow those Rules to the letter or to the best of our
ability as it should be. When we follow the Rules it proves that we an do as we are told by
the one controlling us, it shows we are invested in the relationship and also that when
the Rules are something as simple as the amount of time we sleep it shows that we can
truly submit to our Dominant and that when it comes to the bigger issues and Rules in the
relationship it shows that no matter what the Rules are o n us we can follow them to our
Dominant's liking and expectations. Also when we don't follow a Rule we risk disappointing
our Dominant and that is something as a submissive we strive not to do. Their displeasure
is not something that is a happy emotional state for us submissive's because it will
cause us to feel unhappy and then of course our Dominant's have to punish is if we break
or don't follow the Rules and it's enough to warrant it. If we can follow Rules then our
Dominant's know that when it comes to playtime we are going to be able to follow the
Rules involved there because if a submissive cannot follow the simplest of Rules outside of
play then it will show that we may not be able to follow the Rules imposed for our protection
during play and it is more dangerous for a submissive not to follow Rules during that time.
When a submissive follows the Rules it shows that she loves, care and respects her Dominant
as she knows He is there for her protection and to keep Him from worrying constantly.
The Rules are important because they are His instructions. His plan to help in your
modification as His submissive. Without these Rules you would just be a woman without
a goal. These Rules are what make you a submissive, and mould you into the type of
submissive that He wants to see.
You need Rules to remind you of who you are His submissive. Rules are also constant
reminders of her ultimate submission it proves to her every times she follows a Rule even
if it be something small as adding an apple a day to her lunch, it will draw her back to her
submission and thoughts of her Dominant always reminding her of her place at His side as
His loving submissive, and is there to please Him.
So to summarise although sometimes the Rules are hard to follow and seem like they are
unnecessary if they stop something like your Dominant worrying about you for any period of time then they are worth them just as a constant reminder of who you are even when you are at work with you business head on, they are a reminder of who you really are and what is
true to your nature. They are there as reminders of love and caring as well as for our emotional
and physical well being. The Rules are needed and craved by some but by others not so much,
but to be given a Rule and not to follow is like to be given an order and not to follow through
and both will end in punishment. These Rules are needed and need to be followed otherwise
it has effects on other aspects of the D/s relationship.
Failing to achieve all the Rules on a daily basis can happen for many reasons and some for
no reason at all. They could happen for physical ailments, in which case, my Dominant
would seek compassion I'm sure and allow a slide. The day could be filled with a lot of other
activities and in that case, one should have permission to not fulfil certain tasks. The worst\failing is just to forget. Forgetting is a breakdown in the commitment and trust between
Dominant and submissive and should be avoided with all being. When forgetting takes place
punishment is the result, to again remind the submissive, who controls who, and that the
Dominant holds love and pride in the submissive even through a failing. Completing the
punishment should better the girl and help enforce the Rules once again.
It is important to find ways not to fail on the Rules established by your Dominant. Finding
ways to avoid that have included making a daily checklist, not allowing enjoyable rest time
until the list is accomplished, and staying up late, or getting up early to make sure time is
not an issue. Other ways to avoid displeasing your Dominant have not been set up just yet.
Rules are set to be followed; there is no excuse that does not come with repercussions. If
one does not believe that these Rules are important the breakdown of the relationship will
occur. Following the Rules will give you the feeling of comfort and love. I will do them to the
best of my ability, unless shown how to do them differently by my Dominant. My goal is to
ultimately please my Dominant without having to think about the Rules, get them ingrained
in my mind, becoming second nature and finally my whole heart will only want to please and
obey Him.
Todys's to do list :
1) Make a section in your file for Rules.
2) Make a section in your file for Buttons.
3) In your Rule section after reading today's work, write about how yo feel about having
Rules and send it to your Dominant.
4) Place your Rules from day 1 in your Rule section and show your Dominant.
5) Do something special with your first white button and show your Dominant.
6) Write Rules on your Ice cream stick and keep it.
Grand Master Clinton
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Good evening Master Jamy
Here is my work for today :
1) Make a section in your file for Rules.
2) Make a section in your file for Buttons.
3) In your Rule section after reading today's work write about how you feel about having
Rules and send it to your Dominant.
4) Place your Rules from day 1 in your Rule Section and show your Dominant.
5) Do something special with your first white Button and show your Dominant.
6) Write Rules on your Ice cream stick and keep it.
Well now we have learned all about Rules and as a submissive we will strive to be
the best version of ourselves as submissives and follow all the Rules that our
Dominant's place upon us. Leave a message if you choose and follow if
you so choose to. Until next lesson play safe and stay safe. 💋💋
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